Top 10: Signs She's Cheating

No man likes to discover that his girlfriend has set her
eyes on another chump. What is even more heart
shattering is the discovery that she has already done
the unimaginable and cheated on you. Here are some signs that she might have taken a roll
in another man's hay bale. But before you start
suspecting your girlfriend or accusing your wife of
cheating, remember that these are just signs.
Ultimately, you should trust your instincts. You must also be on the look out for combinations of
these cheating signs for a more definitive indication of
trouble. Lastly, there is the chance, however slight,
that she is actually doing some of these things to
provoke jealousy or to attract you , so be careful, be
wise and, most importantly, be smart. Number 10 Scent of another man Scent is a very important sign of cheating girlfriend,
but if she suddenly starts wearing a new fragrance,
the alarm bells need not sound off. She might be
simply trying to spice things up in your relationship.
Going off the deep end too soon could damage your
love life -- permanently. However, if you smell another man's cologne on her clothes, hands or neck, then
she may be planting her lips where she shouldn't.
Watch out. Number 9 She doesn't criticize you anymore There was a time when she cared about what you did
or said, in fact, she used to hound you about those
type of things. Now, it seems that she couldn't care
less if you were dead or alive and concern about your
habits, good and bad, have retreated to the recesses
of her mind. She might have simply given up on trying to convert you or she finally accepted your faults, but
she could have just as easily met someone else who
does not have your faults and bad qualities. Number 8 You caught her in a lie Catching her in a flat-out lie is a key sign that she is
cheating on you or doing something wicked. When
you discover that the person you're supposed to trust
has been lying to you, your feelings will surely run the
gamut -- from anger to rage, and from frustration to
sadness. But keep this in mind: if men are stuck with the "once a liar, always a liar" lyric, the same stigma
can be applied to women. Number 7 Your sex life is nonexistent In the past, the two of you went at it like wild animals
in heat, but now she gives you the cold shoulder when
you try to initiate sexual relations and intimacy is
nonexistent. Either she has lost interest in you, which
is not good, or she is getting her kicks elsewhere,
which is really not good. It's time for a talk if the two of you are still intimate but find that she lacks any
desire for you. Number 6 She has a new wardrobe She has an entirely new wardrobe, her lingerie has
taken a cue from Victoria's Secret and her hair looks
great. She could be cheating on you, but here is a
warning to the paranoid: if she started a new job, for
example, she is probably not cheating. If she is doing
this all for you, wake up and please her as she is not cheating on you... at least not yet. Number 5 She's getting in shape She hits the gym, eats healthier and she has her eyes
set on becoming fit in a short time span. Again, she
might be looking to improve her health and lifestyle or
she might be doing the extra laps for you. But if she
gets home from the gym, showers and runs out
(without telling you where she's off to), then something is up. Number 4 She works longer hours A surprising number of women have admitted that if
they were to cheat, it would likely be with a colleague.
So unless she was just promoted, has a project to
close or she's in the midst of a busy season, her work
hours should remain more or less stable. If she
suddenly starts working 60 hours a week instead of 40, she might just be "logging" in those 20 extra hours
on someone else's pay sheet. You should take note,
as it might be time for you to punch out. Number 3 She likes her new colleague Your girlfriend might be cheating if she was, at one
time, constantly talking about her new male
colleague, pal or friend and suddenly stopped. This
guy, who at first seemed to seemed to be the center
of the universe, suddenly disappeared from the radar.
Actually, he only disappeared from your radar, as he has become the number one bogey on hers. If you
see your girlfriend showing any form of affection
toward another man, alarm bells should start ringing.
The only instances that you shouldn't suspect her of
cheating are if this man is a relative or an old friend.
Could this reverence for the new star employee be the reason she no longer invites you to the office parties? Number 2 You're cut off from her family Her family is now exactly that: her family. One reason
for the extra barrier might be to facilitate the eventual
separation caused by her cheating or she needs her
family to cover up for her. Perhaps the "in-laws" are in
the dark as much as you, and would not condone her
actions. Whatever her motives, you have discovered that you actually miss the family gatherings that you
once dreaded. Number 1 She has become defensive and paranoid She thinks that you are out to get her when you are
genuinely clueless about her cheating ways. She
stutters and worries excessively when you ask her
innocent questions. She answers some phone calls
and reacts awkwardly, while she completely avoids
other calls. Her sudden fear and paranoia have you worried about her health, until you realize that her
health regimen has been getting an extra dose of
protein. she's the cheating kind If you notice any one of the aforementioned signs in
your girlfriend or wife, don't fly off the handle just yet.
Remember, it's important to keep sudden behavioral
changes in mind as you examine and contrast her
regular actions against her new attitude. When you
suspect your girl of cheating it is best to follow your instincts first and to keep an eye out for any number
of signs. Naturally, our first instinct when we discover
a cheating girlfriend is to end the relationship.
However, this is up to you and you need to consider
what you might have done, if anything, to provoke the
cheating and how much time you have invested in the relationship.