If you have been feeling insecure and more than a
little suspicious about whether your husband or
boyfriend is cheating on you, think about whether the
following major signs are familiar. It is crucial,
however, to realise that everything on this list can
also be explained in other ways. These thirteen signs do paint a picture of the stereotypical cheating
partner, but they do not in themselves provide
conclusive evidence. After reviewing these signs, we
will explore how best to approach your partner about
the subject of potential infidelity. 1. Your partner overreacts when you go near his
phone or computer:
If your partner panics or starts being territorial the
moment you go anywhere near any device that he can
use for personal messages, this may be because he
is planning a nice surprise for you. More often than not, however, this apprehensive secrecy will be
because he feels guilty about some aspect of his
correspondence. In some cases, this secret
correspondence will unfortunately consist in salacious
exchanges or in plans to meet his other lover. A new
and extreme interest in privacy is always a sign that you should consider whether your partner might be
cheating on you. 2. I Your partner is avoiding sex (or seems
dispassionate during sex):
A cheating partner will often bluster and offer quite
unconvincing or insincere sounding excuses to get
out of having sex with you. In addition, if he seems to
be a million miles away or even looks bored while you are making love, this is definitely a sign that
something is profoundly wrong (whether it can be
explained by cheating or by something else entirely). 3. Your partner gives evasive answers to simple or
fair questions:
If you find that your partner stalls you or gives strange
answers when you ask straightforward questions
about his plans for the day or about what he has been
doing, consider that this might be because he is trying to find an appropriate lie (and is worried about being
caught out). A similar warning sign consists in your
partner demanding that you explain why you want to
know what you’re asking, when what you are asking is
simply a polite or curious question that he did not
used to criticise you for asking. 4. I Being around your friends or family seems to
make your partner uncomfortable:
If your partner used to like going to family gatherings
or meeting your friends for dinner and drinks,
something is amiss if he suddenly stops showing
interest in these activities. A cheating husband or boyfriend will often feel particularly guilty about his
activities when he is around other people who love
and care for you, and so he will isolate himself from
your friends and family. 5. I There is a new friend that you are not encouraged
to meet:
If your partner is talking about or spending a lot of
time with a new colleague or friend, be suspicious if
he attempts to steer you away from any possible
chances to meet this new friend. This is a particularly important warning sign if your husband or boyfriend is
either overly enthusiastic about constantly mentioning
this person no matter what the context, or if he is
extremely cagey about revealing any details about
this mysterious new person who is taking up so much
of his time.. 6.I Your partner is spending a lot more time ‘at work’:
In some cases, a cheating partner truly will be
spending time at work, because he will be cheating on
you with someone he happens to have met at work.
However, in other cases he will claim to be working
late or say that he is taking on new work obligations when in actual fact he will be at a hotel or will be
visiting his other lover’s home. 7. Your partner always seems distracted:
Many personal problems and stresses can lead to
your partner looking somewhat spaced out or
distracted. One such problem, however, is infidelity.
When a husband or boyfriend cheats, he is usually at
least somewhat infatuated with the new person he is seeing. This leads to all the usual daydreaming and
obsessive thoughts, and to an inability to properly
concentrate on the 'mundane' aspects of daily life. 8. There have been changes in your partner’s regular
habits and schedules:
If your partner’s movements suddenly become
unpredictable or confusing in ways that are not
properly explained, this is cause to worry that he is
hiding something significant. Warning signs include things like random trips to the grocery store that
somehow last around an hour, not being at home at a
time that he assured you he would be home by, and
abruptly hanging up the phone when you walk into the
room. 9. Your partner smells differently:
Though most cheating partners take steps to make
sure that they do not smell of another person’s
cologne or perfume, sometimes an unfaithful husband
or boyfriend will still slip up and fail to think about
whether he is carrying this scent home with him. 10.You are being disproportionately nagged or
criticised:
When people have affairs, sometimes the guilt leads
them to extreme lengths to help justify their affair.
This can manifest in an increased willingness to find
fault with their primary partner, so that they do not view the primary partner as being victimised. 11. You find a different kind of birth control to the kind
the two of you use together:
If you find condoms when one of you is sterile or
when your form of birth control is a hormonal
contraceptive like the pill, this is obviously strong
cause to suspect that your partner might be playing away from home. 12. Your partner has a suddenly renewed interest in
appearance and sexiness:
If your partner starts being more interested in his
looks then this might be due to self-esteem problems
or concerns about growing old, but sometimes it will
be because he is out to impress someone new. If your partner starts buying a lot of new clothes, or is
taking a strangely long time to get ready before going
out to do things that he claims are mundane, this is a
reason to be at least somewhat suspicious. It is
definitely a warning sign if this new interest in
appearance is not accompanied by any interest in whether you like his new clothes, style or efforts. 13. Your partner insists on immediately showering
upon returning home:
A cheating husband or boyfriend will often want to go
straight to the shower when he gets back from seeing
their other lover. Sometimes this is so that you will
not smell the other person on his skin, but at other times this might be due to feelings of guilt and a
desire to cleanse himself of his wrongdoing. If you recogniSe more than half of the above signs,
your suspicions about infidelity are justified. However,
this does not mean that your husband or boyfriend is
cheating on you, and you could end up being the one
who is dumped if you erroneously accuse him of
being so heinously dishonest with you. The most sensible thing you can do is to offer your evidence
and calmly admit your suspicions, then see what he
says in response. If it turns out that your partner has
been cheating but is willing to stop, consider whether
you could ever forgive or trust him again. If you think
you could make the relationship work again, try going to couple’s therapy together once your partner has
entirely severed ties with the other woman or man in
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